It's so much easier than you think

Life is not...


Your problems

Your circumstances 

Your body

Your stuff

Your thoughts & feelings

Your psychology


Your past

Life is...

the quiet aliveness beneath all of it

the infinite presence of every possibility

the you untouched by all your experience

the innate capacity to see something new

what's breathing, moving and unfolding you

the safe ground you're always standing on

Everything you need is already built in. To life. And to you.

There is nothing wrong with you.  Or with life.  

Getting clear eyes on how you, and life, actually work is the only thing standing in your way.

There is nothing to do, only something to see

and the simple matter of knowing where to look.

Welcome to the conversation of your life
an adventure into...

...the peace, wisdom

and creativity of

your true nature

...traveling through

experience without

being afraid of it


...coming alive in the playground

of possibility and navigating

from beyond your

world of thought

...growth and

expansion beyond

working on yourself

About Mer

25 years into a journey through the world of psychology, alternative healing and a 1,000 other cool things designed to fix me and my life, I happened upon a simple understanding of how life works.  To my complete surprise, what I saw changed everything.



Mer is like a sherpa, patiently walking with you up a mountain

to view life from a new altitude.


The hours I spent talking with Mer have lifted something very heavy that I have been

carrying for most of my life.  I feel at peace knowing that the life I really want

has been there all along and I simply needed to see it.


Having conversations with Mer has helped me smoothly navigate

one of the most difficult transitions of my life.



Contact Mer

Clear Eyes